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Hanging with his cousins at the beach
Thanksgiving 2008 at the Cabin
Levi the dog!
Elizabeth Edwards said it best in her book Resilience, "When you lose a child you go from parenting the child to parenting the memory of the child". It's true. When their birthday rolls around annually, it's still their birthday, only they aren't around so it is a really strange feeling. Do you celebrate do you quietly remember them? What do you do? I personally spend the day reflecting on how lucky I was to have such an awesome kid. He was more than I had ever hoped he would be He was a lovely son, great friend, loving grandson and all around stellar guy. Yes, my life was better having him in it! Do I still miss him? Like crazy everyday of my life, but how thankful am I that I had that? So many people don't. Yes, I am the lucky one for having him and now having the beautiful memories.
Walker, we miss you, love you, and will always remember you on this day. I know you are enjoying yourself where ever you are and probably making everyone laugh. I know you would want us all to celebrate this day and be happy for having you in our lives, instead of sad, because you are no longer here. Today, we celebrate you Walker, you will forever be in our hearts. Memories of you are sweeter than ever!
Happy 27th Birthday My Sweet Son!
We love you and miss you greatly!
Cheers!
"Life is eternal; and love is immortal; and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight" - Rossiter W. Raymond,
Happy Birthday Walker! Love you Lisa, your strength, love and amazing energy inspires me every day. Thank you! Xo
ReplyDeleteYou are an amazingly strong woman! I wish you and your family love, comfort and peace.
ReplyDeleteLisa, I know he would be so proud of you. Praying for you today.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to your sweet boy! He looks like a guy that enjoyed every minute. Praying for your family today.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday to Walker! He is missed by many!
ReplyDeleteThanks Sharon! xooxox
DeleteI remember the day he was born and remember the boy. I am sorry I did not get to spend more time around Walker the "man" because I know he was amazing, compassionate, and funny...just like he was as a youngster. Much love to you and the family.
ReplyDeleteI love you and know you loved Walker! Thank you!!!
DeleteWhat beautiful words - May you feel nothing but love, comfort, peace and joy. I can't even imagine. You are amazing. That first photo is priceless! xo
ReplyDeleteLisa,
ReplyDeleteyou are truly an amazing woman and mother.I don't know how you where able to move on from something like losing a child.But you have done so in such an inspiring way. My thoughts are with you and your family today. Happy birthday Walker!
Thank You Christine! We do what we have to do! xoxox
DeleteLisa, what a wonderful son Walker was to you. Thank you for sharing your memories with us. Saying a prayer for you today.
ReplyDeletexo,Lissy
Thank You Lissy! It has taken me a while to respond! xoxox
DeleteWords cannot express the emotions I'm feeling from reading such a beautiful tribute to your son Walker.
ReplyDeleteThank you! Forgive me for not responding sooner. It has taken me a while to read these comments!
DeleteHugs Lisa. And happy birthday to Walker! xoxoxo
ReplyDeleteThank you Liz!! I miss you!
Deletehappy birthday to your sweet, sweet Walker! Of course you have to celebrate him every single year! He's still your son and he will be with you forever. What a wonderful tribute. Thinking of you and your family. You are so strong.
ReplyDeleteYou are too sweet!!! oxoxox
DeleteThinking of you Lisa! I really enjoyed our time together. Sending bear hugs your way!
ReplyDeleteThinking of you Lisa! I really enjoyed our time together. Sending bear hugs your way!
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed our time together too!
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