Tuesday, December 23, 2014

12 Tips for Setting The Holiday Table


Have you set your holiday table? Do you have Christmas China you like to use or do you look for ways to dress up your everyday dishes?    I wanted to share with you several place settings, I created for "QCExclusive" magazine using flowers and items I picked up at the local grocers or shops.  The goal here was to use the same dinner ware and silverware, but change the look with a few simple elements.   My hope was to demonstrate how decorating doesn't have to be expensive or time consuming.  
Hopefully, this post  will spur on a couple of quick ideas to get your holiday table set with ease. If you would like to read the feature in QCExclusive click here.


My everyday dinnerware is Country Estate by Juliska.  My Country Estate is grey and white but Juliska also offers Country Frolic in red and white for those that want traditional Christmas chine.  I love mine though because it is so neutral.  It looks great with almost any color.   I used snakeskin chargers(no longer available), the Juliska dinnerware, linen napkins, placemats and twig silverware from West Elm.  (My silverware is no longer available but here is a similar style if you like that look!)


The flowers were picked up at the grocery store.  I used a deep orange because orange has become a popular color in home decor.  Cedar greenery added to the flowers gives a nod to the holidays on hand.  The petite pewter pitchers are from Armetale.  They were a gift from my mom years ago. Folding the napkin and presenting it a special way takes things up a notch.  



For this place setting I removed the chargers and added a pretty green wrapped gift in the center of the plate with a cork tree ornament.  If you wanted placecards to identify who sets where, you could add names to the trees with a glitter pen.  



Notice how the addition of a red napkin changes the look of the place setting.



It isn't necessary to rush out and purchase red and green to be festive.  For this place setting a linen placemat was used as the base, then layered with a wicker placemat for texture.  The napkin was traded for a russet colored napkin in lieu of expected Christmas red.  A simple votive sits in the plate which could serve as a keepsake gift for guests who attend your feast.  A tiny sprig of fresh greens is adorned with silver beads which are festive enough to leave for New Year's Eve.  Once all the guest sit down, the votives could be lit and place by the plates to add ambience to your table.


 Why do the expected when the unexpected can be so beautiful!


If traditional decor is your cup of team, then by all means go for the red!  This place setting features red placemats,napkins and roses mixed with cedar greens and arranged in tiny white ceramic pitcher.  It's simple, yet elegant! 


12 TIPS FOR DECORATING YOUR HOLIDAY TABLE WITH EASE!

1.  Look at your everyday china and think of ways to dress it up for the holidays.
2.  Shop the local grocery store for flowers that are on special or in season.  My three
     favorite places to buy well priced flowers quickly are Trader Joe's, Costco, The
     Fresh Market and Whole Foods. (Whole Foods always has great greenery.
3.  Look in your yard for greenery!  If you have a boxwood, holly bush, cedar
     or magnolia, all make great table arrangements.
4.  Layer your place settings for interest.  Don't be afraid to use a couple of placemats.
5.  Go for the mix!  Mixing and matching dishes is always fun!  
6.  Pick up a fun set of silverware to give place settings a unique look during the year.
     Tuesday Mornings and Marshall's often have silverware with colored stems.
7.  Don't stick to red and green, go for something different!  Make your table
     an extension of your room.  If your room is pink and grey, make your table
     settings pink and grey or something that will co-ordinate.
8.  Place a small gift, or keepsake at the table for your guest to take home
     to mark the occasion as a memory.
9.  Use Fresh greens and flowers!  Nothing says special like fresh flowers!
10. Use linen, silver and china whenever you can!  Our world has gotten
      so casual we often opt for paper plates, so use the good stuff, your children
      will remember you went to the extra effort.  Fold the napkins a special way!
11. Light candles.  No other light gives off the romance and ambience of candlelight.
12. Make your guest feel special.  Relax and enjoy the evening with them.  


Speaking of folding napkins special ways....I found these beautiful napkins folded like
a tree and snowflake and wanted to share.



  Click here to learn how to fold a Christmas tree shaped napkin for holiday guests!

Click Here for Folding Tutorial!

No matter how the holiday table is set, enjoy the fellowship of loved ones
  breaking bread together.  
Merry Christmas!  May all your dreams come true!
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Monday, December 22, 2014

HOPEMATCH


My husband has a servant's heart.  He is always thinking of ways he can help others.  This year he became a board member of HopeMatch.  What is HopeMatch? HopeMatch is a local charity which serves families in need in the Charlotte area.  It started as a Christmas program but since has grown into much, much more.  

How does HopeMatch work?  This diagram explains it pretty well!


To become a family served by HopeMatch, one has to be nominated.  People cannot nominate themselves.  Once nominated, the family are chosen after careful screening.  Donors are matched to families and shop for the families.  Any family that is helped agrees to pay it forward by attending the Give Back event the next year to help wrap presents for new families being helped the following season.  HopeMatch served 123 families this year! 
We hope next year we will serve more with your help!!  


Interested in volunteering with HopeMatch?  Click Here
Interested in donating to HopeMatch?  Click Here
Interested in More Information?  Click Here

We need Bibles donated!

Want to donate Bibles to HopeMatch?  click here! 


We were so pleased with how HopeMatch was able to help families this year!
Thank you to our HopeMatch Sponsors!





Thank you to all who participated!  If you would like to contribute or participate
 next year please let us know!  



HOPEMatch is a 501(C)3 non-profit ministry. 
All monetary or gift donations are tax deductible. 
Donations may be made directly to HOPEmatch at:

PO Box 691051
Charlotte, NC 28227

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Sunday, December 21, 2014

Christmas Pearls of Wisdom - The Birthday of a King!

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Christmas is upon us.  The time we celebrate the birth of Jesus.   There are many questions as to the exact date Jesus was born.  According to historians shepherds would not be watching their flocks in December nor was there a census taken in December which indicates that Jesus may not have been born during the winter months.  The date of December 25 coincides with popular pagan religious celebrations.  Many believe this was the reason December 25th was chosen as his birthday.  It's one of the mysteries left unturned.

It is hard to tell exactly when December 25th was first recognized as Christ's birthday, but historians seem to think it was around the fourth century.  Christmas wasn't celebrated in Rome until over 300 Years after Christ died.  It's origin can't be traced back to the early Christian's teachings or practices.

Some people think that Jesus's birth is a myth created the same as a fairy tale.   I'm here to tell you the story is real.   I have witnessed God's work first hand.  When my son died, I had so many questions about life and death.  Miraculously, I was guided through the process of grief, by many mysterious methods.  Later when I looked back at the situation, I could see my son's life was completely and perfectly planned.  One day I will share the details of this, but for now, I can emphatically proclaim, Christ as King.  He is in control and does have a plan for each and every one of us.

It wasn't until I lost my son, that I truly understood God's gift to me and to the world.  He gave his son knowingly.  I didn't give my son at all.  He was taken from me or so I thought.  It wasn't until I came to the realization that our children are on loan to us.  They belong to God, not us.  What a precious gift we are given when we receive a child.   Who but God would knowingly give up their child by allowing him to suffer on a cross? His gift  was the ultimate gift.  I thank him daily for his gift of Jesus. 

It doesn't matter when Jesus was born.  The only thing that really matter is  THAT he was born!   We must celebrate joyfully and with full hearts Christ's birthday next week but  don't celebrate Jesus's birth only at Christmas.  Celebrate him all year long!

  When we are struggling to finish shopping and preparing our home for the holidays,it's easy to loose track of what is important.  If you are too caught up in "the busy" of the season, stop and be still.  Relish in the moment. Think back over the gifts that have been given to us and cherish each one.  Love one another, be thankful to God!  

Remember to keep a little Christmas in your heart throughout the coming year.  


"For unto us a child is born, unto us a Son is given: and the government shall be upon His Shoulder: and His Name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, 
The Mighty God, The Everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace." ~Isaiah 9:6
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Saturday, December 20, 2014

Day #12 My Gift to You! - 12 Days of Christmas

Love this graphic from The Pinterest Project!
  It's printable, click here for details!

Christmas Music is blaring in the Mende House, cookies are
baking, last minute tasks are being completed so we can check off 
our to do list!  What are you doing on this last Saturday before Christmas?

I wanted to take a minute and thank you  for reading the blog
this year!   2015 will bring many changes to Lisa Mende Design.  I can't
wait to share what's going on with you.  

I've had a wonderful 2014.  As I look back over this past year,
 I am reminded of my many blessings.  Thank you for being part of 
those blessings.  The friends I have made through my blog are a happy
 part of my life.   I want to personally thank you for taking time from
 your busy lives to read my blog.  To show my gratitude, I wanted
 to give you a little gift.  


Get the entire family in on the chores!  Christmas was not meant for one
 person in the family to do all the work!  Delegate!  Nominate your own elves to help!

Remember to Slow Down and Enjoy this time....

Lisa's List of Important Things to Do at Christmas!

1.  Look the other way when Grandparents want to spoil Grandchildren
2. Forgive anyone who has wronged you!  Give the gift of forgiveness everyday for
    yourself as well as those you hold malice towards.
3. Prepare as many dishes for dinner as you can!  Take the day off and enjoy!
4. Don't forget to hang the mistletoe
5. Save a branch of your Christmas tree trunk to burn as next year's yule log
6. Don't forget the batteries
7. Don't forget to milk and cookies out for Santa.
8. Remember that peace on Earth starts with peace in our hearts and homes.
9. Read the Christmas Story on Christmas Eve as a family!
10.  Don't forget to celebrate the true meaning of Christmas.  It is Jesus's Birthday!

P.S. Don't forget to watch "White Christmas!"


Enjoy the Season! 


Note: Important things list taken from "The Little Book of Christmas Joys"
432 Things to do for yourself and others that just might make this the best Christmas Ever!
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Friday, December 19, 2014

Day #11 - Homemade Goodies Are A Perfect Gift! 6 Easy recipes! - 12 Days of Christmas!

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Time is running out for shipping items, so why not make some gifts
 yourself?  I have rounded up my family's favorite holiday recipes
 along with a couple from friends. Every recipe included is quick
 and easy!  The wonderful aromas created while baking
 these goodies is an added bonus!

Pictured above are snowball cookies!  For the recipe click here!
Cooking Classy made them into snowballs but at my house we
make them into small little finger shapes and call them lady fingers!


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 Pop over to my beautiful friend, Pamela Copeman's blog for a no fail sugar
 cookie recipe.  When my kids were little we baked all kinds of goodies and
 shared with our neighbors and friends.

Here are some of my favorites to make for holiday giving.  Hope this post puts
you in a baking mood!  We plan to bake tonight at the Mende house!  Can't wait
to try Pamela's cookie recipe!  

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Cheese straws
Yield 10 dozen
30 minute prep
Bakes in 12 min.


1 1/2 cups butter softened
1 (1lb) block sharp cheddar cheese shredded 
1 1/2 teaspoons salt
1 to 2 teaspoons ground red pepper
4 cups all purpose flour
Beat first 5 ingredients at medium speed with a heavy-duty stand mixer until blended. Gradually add flour, beating until 
well combined.  Use cookie press to make star shaped long ribbons.line baking sheet.  cut ribbons into 2 inch pieces. 
Bake at 350 for 12 min.  
For Cheese wafers by combining ingredients then chill dough for 2 hr.  shape dough into 4 logs, wrap each in plastic and chill for 8 hrs, then remove from frig and cut in 1/4" slices place on parchment paper lined baking sheets and bake on 350 for approx 15 or until brown, remove and cool.  store in airtight container for a week.  Note: if you don't have a stand mixer use a handheld just make sure to divide the ingredients in half and work with two batches.


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 Sausage Balls are my family's favorite holiday treat.  My husband has become quite the sausage ball maker.  I must admit a dirty little secret....I don't eat them but everyone else in my world LOVES them.  You will too if you have never had them.  They are definitely a holiday must have at the Mende house. 

Recipe and Photo via She Wears Many Hats

She Wears Many Hats has my exact recipe for salted pecans!  We love to make these for cocktails.  The kids love to snack on them too.  There are only three ingredients so nothing complicated here.  

Salted Pecans

5 min. prep
approx 15 min cook time depending on your oven

4 cups of pecans
 tablespoons of butter
1/2 teaspoon of salt

Preheat oven to 350 degrees.  Add butter to large baking sheet and put in oven to melt, then add pecans and salt toss to coat and spread in even layer.  Bake for approx 15 min.  toss halfway through cooking time.  Watch carefully because they can burn quickly.  Store in air tight container or zip loc bag until ready to serve.


Ok, so the next recipe I'm sharing isn't for gift giving but if you have some
 friends in, try this....

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Toasted marshmallow shot glasses !!!!
Cheri Alberts of YouTube's The Watering Mouth teaches us all how

I have a couple other recipes I'll share later but that's enough for now! 
Gotta go run some errands!   Happy Holidays!  Let me know what your favorite
holiday recipes are!  I would love to know!  

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